sleepytime reading

if you want some great reading & glimpses inside (mostly normal) guys' minds, check this out...

http://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts10123819.aspx

in other news, one of my ex-boyfriends is coming to visit. as in stay with me for 9 days. this should be interesting. this is mr. la, the one that wants me to marry him...

interesting summer this is turning out to be. i like mr. la. he was really good to me. he's almost like family in fact, which is why i don't mind him staying here. however, i really can't marry him. i've told him that. i hope this isn't a mission to change my mind.