long time no see

well, i haven't written anything substantial for a while. but the words are still flowing...they've just been running around my head lately instead of landing themselves on a page.

it's hard to know how to choose when you have PART of a choice and not the whole thing. and even if you do, how do you know what guy is best for you? do you pick the one that makes you feel all hot & bothered, even if it is hot under the collar a good share of the time? or do you pick the stable one that doesn't really ruffle your feathers much at all, but is just a good guy.

for women? the eternal dilemma. right up there with do i pick mr. workaholic or mr. available?

where oh where are the "normal" guys? oh where oh where can they be? all the ones that work but still make time for you, oh where oh where can they be?