happy thanksgiving

i am thankful for many things this weekend. one of which is that i am single. yes, i finally decided i should give thanks for this. for following my heart. and the part of me that knows i am still single because i have chosen to be. because i have the guts to buck society and not marry a person that i don't think is right for me. just to get married. so i am not unhappily married. or divorced. or raising kids on my own. (yet) there are many reasons to be thankful that i am a strong, independent woman who is not afraid of living life on her own.

god is good to give me the strength to do what's best for me & my future kids. timing is everything, says the wise man, solomon. and i'm thankful i've been able to not move forward until i'm ready.

i have more to write, but it will be later. some other time. guests await and i shouldn't be impolite, writing to you before i talk to them. though of course i am anyhow! ah, that independent nature. gotta love it.