sparkles

what is it about marriage that takes the sparkle right out of a girl's eye? that makes her tired and aged?

scares the hell out of me. i've seen it happen to so many of my friends. what i can't figure out, is it just the aging process? (i feel old and tired too, even though someone at work just told me she thought i was 10 yrs younger than my age). or is it the marriage process?

i don't want to lose my sparkle.