December 23, 2008

i met a real guy who treats me like a lady...

applause for anonymous's comments to the "is it me" post. apparently it's not.

these guys do exist, it's not a myth. i just met one this weekend!

in an odd twist of fate, i heard this guy sing in church. long story short, next thing he's singing with our choir, going out with us saturday night, rescuing us sunday from the ER-incident, at our party, taking me to the airport - and wants to fly me out to go skiing with him at mammoth.

he's an adorable - read killer smile, deep voice, kind, sweet, laid-back but not a pushover - doctor who has, gasp, weekends off. he finds me - shockingly - fascinating, and generally thinks i'm awesome.

which he said when he hugged me goodbye at the airport.

now of course, the skeptical me is trying to yell, but i'm trying to silence that side for a change.

as anonymous said, he's not flirting. he's treating me like a lady - as evidenced that he didn't even try to make out with me - and, he, did i say, finds me fascinating, already?

wow. i'm in - awe. as evidenced by the fact that i am clearly stuttering in my writing.

more to come along this theme. i hope! really i do.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

all the best!

Just take it easy, don't expect much from this or him, if he pleases you, be grateful, but if he didn't or disappoints you, ..he's just human, give him the benefit of doubt.

Most time when we're being pushy, and whine the small stuff, that's when guys see us a trouble.

Take it easy and slow...offer friendship, but not more than that..for now ;)