today's topic: spontaneous combustion: the death of a date.

i don't really have too much to say about this topic, but what i have to say is very emphatic.

there's nothing that makes a girl feel less wanted than spontaneous dates. notice i ended dates with an s, because sometimes spontaneity is a blast. when you know the person well, it's lots of fun. until then or as an exclusive method of dating: it's an insult.

my advice? if you can't even commit to a date with a us, don't waste our time. you know what else we think you won't be able to commit to: ANYTHING.

to those of you who have learned from your mistakes (such as my wednesday date) and actually want to start planning ahead, cool. i won't hold my breath, but it's definitely a start -- i now feel halfway important. you can finish up the other half on the date. if you do show up. ;)