groucha marx

you know what quote i'm referring to.

"I don’t care to belong to any club that will have me as a member".

apparently that's me & marriage. i'm just not cut out for it. i love men, i adore them, but it's not you, it's me, baby.

i've always known i am different. i just don't subscribe to the everywoman dream. sure, i get sad thinking i won't have it, but i just dunno.

it's gonna take a pretty remarkable guy to nail me down. especially since i don't pick carpenters. ;) meaning, guys that are interesting in nailing...well, except for the moment...