turnabout is fair play

i've kept in touch with mr. busy off & on over the past few months & apparently he feels it's time to meet up. we're going to do a mutual b-day dinner when he returns to town.

i've found past exes tremendously helpful in getting over recent ones. since i seem to have to have my attention on at least one guy at a time (or else i get unreasonably bitter, somewhat like a guy without sex i suppose) i have found this strategy very useful. it's another reason to keep exes around as friends.

besides, i like these men. and they like to be useful and helpful. i can't let them down, it's better for their ego if i assign them something useful to do. doesn't matter if they don't know what it is they're doing exactly...