20/20 vision II

along the line of giving space...

i've found that generally i can establish a "preferred interaction timeline" for the guys i date, which if we get along well, matches somewhat with mine. but is a bit longer.

hence the angst. (he loves me not! :( )

and then, whoops, there it is.

my challenge has been to lengthen my PITs to match the guys. often i'll be like, gee, i just have to talk to him or i'm gonna die. (granted, i haven't yet, but for some reason, i don't seem to have picked up on that.)

then if i just wait, tic, tic, tic, i will hear from him shortly.

i think you're pretty much in sync when this happens. if you can't expect to hear from a guy within a certain timeline - plus/minus his personal variant - then i guess it's just not happening. or - he's artificially manipulating it.

ah, the games boyz play to make us miss them - and chase them. tsk tsk.