not letting go

as princessB said, there is letting go & holding on. so for some reason i'm missing all the people i just let go, so of course i'm checking in on them again. but it's interesting because i'm seeing new guy sometimes, he was here last night for a while. so in a sense, they're helping me keep perspective on him - aka not diving in like before.

i'm not actually so sure about him anyway, but he is compatible on so many levels & is just super sweet. he's actually winning me over even though i've never dated his type before. for one thing, he never says any "rs" as i was teasing him about last night.

last night we actually had our first serious conversation, which went rather well. it started with me mildly objecting to him repeatedly talking about his ex-wife. then we talked through the whole thing a bit in a very rational way. i was impressed with us.

it's raining cats & dogs today, so kitten is sitting at the top of his kitty tree, observing all the cats falling outside that are NOT him. very good investment. yea. one happy cat.