ixnay on the ores-hay

ok, just between you and me, it is perfectly justified to ask a guy not to call women whores all the time right?

yeah. i thought so. since i hadn't encountered it particularly before, and i seem to have dated, ahem, a bit over the past few years, i do have some experience in this area. (says the analyst.)

and if you don't want to go down on a guy the first time you hook up, even though he goes down on you, that is also perfectly ok, right? because you are the woman? aka, not whore, who can have some standards and some class and some rules, and the guy should think this is cool right?

not use them as reasons he doesn't want to date you anymore?

yes. i also thought so. maybe i should view new guy (aka last man) in a not so hot light. like a jerk.

or maybe a real jerk.