new guy IS

well, seems i might actually HAVE a new guy. i went to hear him play this weekend & he is an impressive musician. i mean great musician AND performer. his band rocked and really engaged the crowd, meaning all ages. they are a party band & they really were good at it. did i say i was impressed yet?

met one of new guy's crazy ex girlfriends. he calls them the 3 sopranos. the third one is such a b* that this is what she did. so we're standing around in line for beers & he sees her. they start talking & i have no idea who she is, but immediately note she is absolutely gorgeous. like model type. i kind of stand back & give them room to talk, as is the guy she is with, who is looking rather pissed.

new guy introduces me to her & her to me. then i hear her talking something about there is this girl that wants to come hear him play. i'm like WTF but i pretend i can't hear b/c of the other band playing. so we walk away & he tells me who it is. i'm like, did she just talk about other women that want you in front of me? he was like yea, she's trying to cause trouble. she was asking who you are. yes. i was 3 feet away.

he tells me there's a reason why she's and ex and it is clear to me what one of those is. she has just broken every girl & guy code there is.

of course i don't think he handled the situation that great either, but in any case, goes to show what kinda balls she has to talk like that with me right there.

so i'm under the assumption that if i want this to work, it might. i think i do. i saw a lot of stuff that i liked about new guy this weekend, not the least of which was he is a good musician. gotta have some real respect for that. secondly, he seems nice, normal & very sweet.

hmmm...!

in other news, i changed all the curtains in my house today, put on a new futon cover & am redecorating. bah humbug. tired of things the way they are...