boy comes thru

it's working! he's doing it! mr. big is actually - drum roll - responding. like he said he would.

and it's good stuff too. one is this...

when i asked him what i should do about other guys that i don't want to date anymore, he gave me a great line.

just tell them you don't like them like that.

it's perfect. it's polite. and it says i won't be f*in you. ever.

ok, now i just have to do that. ugh.

i don't usually ask guys i like for advice on other guys but 1) he is good at it apparently, being the king of diplomacy and 2) seems i'm not in line for dating more seriously & i mean really, we're not even getting along so that would be why and 3) doesn't hurt to point out i got other things goin' on.