boundaries

this is the first time in my life that i have successfully and nicely set boundaries for interaction with me - with someone that i really like.

aka if you would like to keep interacting with me, this is what we need to figure out. does it work for both of us? and if not, it's ok if you don't show up in my life again. we're at a pretty good place & it's been good.

i'm not expecting it to change anything or make mr. big any more inclined to interact with me, although that would be a secondary benefit. the primary benefit is to remove myself from doormat mode & place my self solidly inside the living room of love.

how corny is that. lol.

(that's really what lol stands for too. wow, i am reaching new lows in my humor!)