why men cheat

check this out.

http://www.oprah.com/slideshow/relationships/couples/20080827_tows_cheating/2

what's interesting about this is not that men suck.

it is - that we have raised a generation of unappreciative women...

this is exactly the reason we heard from a guy on the panel of men at the understanding men conference. somehow we just can't seem to appreciate men. in this generation we've been raised to be the man, what do we need them for?

that's exactly what i'm trying to figure out. but where i've gotten so far is that - i can do most things for myself that i need to do. but men make me happy in a way that i can't do for myself. that in itself is enough reason to appreciate them.

last night & today i reached out to my current guys & just sent them some love. i really haven't done this before. i don't really care what happens. i just wanted them to know i think they are cool. & why.

just call it appreciation!