t-day

yesterday i booked my ticket to my sister's place for t-day. i love going there. it is so relaxing, like i have a home away from home. it was a bit challenging to book a ticket b/c the prices jumped way up for the regular-timed flights. but i made it with only $50 over regular price by flying there in the early morning & back in the middle of the day on monday.

oddly enough, she told me she has arrived at some of the same conclusions about her interactions with men & herself, so i am sharing with her the material from the understandmen conferences that i have been going to. interesting that we arrive at the same place at the same time...the next conference i'm signed up for is men & sex & i can't wait to go to that one. will be in march.

i was sad b/c i asked 4 friends if they were busy or wanted to meet up this weekend & none of them could. :( oh well, i'm sick anyway. i'm trying to figure out from my recent introspection at the last conference what i need to do different about making friends. like perhaps makes ones that actually want to meet up? it seems i'll have to date online again b/c in this town folks don't share their friends. v. unusual to have them say, yeah, we're doing this, come along, like they do in other towns. wierdest thing i've ever seen.